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4. Give choices

Offer children choices throughout the day. For example; "Would you like teddy or car?", "Would you like juice or milk?", What shall we put on next, socks or vest?" Giving choices helps children learn new words and gives them confidence.


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There is no greater gift that you can give a child than the ability to communicate. In this section you will find lots of information which will help you to support children's language and communication at each stage of development from birth to 5 years.


How Communication Develops

Developing communication skills is not just about learning to talk. To be good communicators children also need to be able to pay attention, understand what is being said and be able to interact with others. The following guidlines show the common stages of development in these key areas. It is  important to remember that all children are unique and develop at different rates. By clicking on each stage of development you will also be able to see how each stage is described in the Early Years Foundation Stage Guidance. 

By 6 months

Attention

Watches people's faces when they are talking

Understanding

Starts to respond to the word 'No'

Talking

Uses different cries for different meanings, e.g. if hurt or hungry

Speech sounds

Plays with sounds like 'ba-ba-ba'
Makes sounds

Social Interaction

Smiles at familiar people

By 12 months

Attention

Shows signs of 'listening' when spoken to, e.g. quietens, turns and watches

Understanding

Turns and looks when name is called

Talking

Uses gestures like pointing and waving goodbye

Speech sounds

Makes sounds
Babbling in strings of connected but different sounds, e.g. 'ba-da-go'

Social Interaction

Enjoys games like 'round and round the garden'

By 18 months

Attention

Listens to and carries out simple instructions, e.g. 'get your shoes'

Understanding

Points to pictures in books, e.g. 'show me the ball'
Points to body parts (head, arm, leg) when asked

Talking

Knows, uses and says at least 10 different words

Speech sounds

Tries to copy new words that are said to them

Social Interaction

Plays simple pretend, e.g. sweeping the floor, dressing
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By 2 years

Attention

Can concentrate on an activity they have chosen, but can't tolerate directions from an adult

Understanding

Can point to a number of familiar objects

Talking

Uses a vocabulary of around 50 words
Begins to join two words together, e.g. 'mummy cup'

Speech sounds

Speech can be understood by people who know the child well
Has lots of immaturities with their sounds, e.g. 'tar' for 'car', 'bu' for 'spoon'

Social Interaction

Understands adult gestures like pointing

By 3 Years

Attention

Can stop to listen to directions from an adult but needs help to do this, e.g. prompts to stop, listen and refocus

Understanding

Can find items according to attributes, e.g. 'find me a small one', 'which one is on the table?'
Can answer what and who questions about what is happening, e.g. 'who's in the garden?'

Talking

Has a large vocabulary, including objects, actions, adjectives as well as words to describe time and space, e.g. today, next, under
Can use sentences of four to five words
Uses some word endings, e.g. some plural, 's' or 'ing' for tenses

Speech sounds

Social Interaction

Use people's names to get their attention
Answers questions by talking
Can participate in pretend conservations

By 4 Years

Attention

Can change focus of attention without help, but still needs to stop activity to be able to listen

Understanding

Can follow instructions with two parts, e.g. 'get teddy and sit on the floor'
Can give reasons when asked a 'why' question

Talking

Uses long sentences
Can use some different tenses, but may make mistakes with irregular words, e.g. 'we drived home'
Can link ideas together using words like 'because', 'if' and 'but'

Speech sounds

Speech can be understood by most people
May have still have some longer immaturities in longer words, e.g. 'bella' for umbrella; simplifies when there are two sounds together, e.g. 'pease' for 'please'

Social Interaction

Can start conversations with a range of strategies like asking questions, making comments, calling a name

By 5 Years

Attention

Can respond to questions and concentrate on an activity at the same time

Understanding

Can follow directions using sequence words, e.g. 'show me your picture before you hang it up'

Talking

Uses words to describe height (e.g. 'short'), width ('thin', 'fat') and speed ('fast')
Can tell a simple, familiar story in the right sequence

Speech sounds

May still not use 'th'
May still swap 'w' for 'r'
May still find it difficult to say three consonants together, e.g. 'scratch'

Social Interaction

Takes part in conversations with several turns
Uses language for a variety of different purposes, e.g. to gain or give information, to negotiate, express feelings and opinions

Links

You can find out more about how children develop from...

The Talk to Your Baby campaign
The Early Years Foundation Stage

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